A Labour MP has spoken out about her battle to conceive and how she finally achieved success with IVF despite the âpostcode lotteryâ which exists in services.
Feryal Clark, MP for Enfield North, told Gloria De Piero on GB News about her struggle to conceive in a frank interview.
âI got pregnant in the August of 2020, so weâd gone into lockdown and then over summer it was a bit more relaxed and thatâs whenâŠI had my baby through IVF,â she said.
Iâd been going through IVF for a long time, and Iâd waited a long time to have my baby.
âSo, I decided not to waste any more time and when I got the opportunity to go for IVF again, to have my transfers that summer I did, and I was very lucky, and it worked.â
Asked why she had IVF, Ms Clark explained: âWeâd been trying for several years, quite a few years and Iâve had several miscarriages.
âAnd so, I went through IVF through the NHS, which was an interesting experience.â
She said the process was tough and she had difficulty even convincing her GP that she should have the treatment.
âI think women are so hard done by the NHS anyway, on every front, but on fertility and IVF itâs just so unfair.
âYouâve got a postcode lottery, you know, some places only allowing you one round of IVF, some places allowing three rounds, everyone putting different restrictions.
âThere are so many barriers, it was a fight at every stage to get to treatment.
âIâd fought really hard for it, and it was really, really difficult. And it didnât work, it didnât work through the NHS and then I had to go private.â
The cost of IVF and lack of NHS availability were criticised by Ms Clark: âAt the moment, only 35% of all IVF treatments are undertaken by the NHS, everyone else is having to go private.
âI mean thatâs really damning, women are being forced to go private, and itâs extortionate, itâs really, really expensive for families.â
She said she got pregnant after five rounds of treatment: ââŠit was really difficult because you donât want to tell anyone.
âYouâre a bit embarrassed because it feels, you know thereâs that whole stigma around feeling like a bit of a failure for not being able to conceive.
âAnd so, you always hide it, and I very much felt that stigma, so I didnât tell anyone.
âSo, it meant that I had to take breaks like halfway through my meetings to rush into toilets where I would mix my drugs and, you know, the solution and the powder and lots of different syringes, and like inject myself and then run back.â
She added: âIt is hard, because for the first couple of times I had enough embryos to do two transfers. But then, after that we didnât collect enough eggs, so youâre having to go through the whole process of injections and blood tests and scans and â itâs a lot of appointments and a lot of time off work.â
Describing the moment she discovered she was pregnant, Ms Clark said: âIt was amazing. But for so many women, because through the NHS, IVF just stopped completely, and itâs taken ages and ages for it to restart again.
âSo, itâs been hard. But yeah, and I have a little, lovely, beautiful, little munchkin. I have a daughter now, who is 13 months old now.â
She told Gloria that she of Kurdish heritage and that her parents migrated from Turkey to the UK in the 1980s.
Ms Clark said the current level of political debate around asylum seekers made her âa little bit angry because when my family came here, I was a child, I went to primary school here and all my upbringing was in this country, in this city [London].
âOur city, our neighbourhood, our community was a lot more welcomingâŠitâs very sad, itâs very, very sad, where weâve got to.â